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Some questions feel too awkward
Money, debt, the past, deal-breakers. You know they matter, but you don't know how to bring them up.
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Sakinah: The Muslim Couple's Workbook (Digital Book)
$17.95
- 150 conversations across 10 areas of married life
- A simple, debt-free nikah plan
- A month-by-month guide to your first year
- Use it together on a tablet, or print at home
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About this book
Talk deeply now, so your home can be calm later.
Most couples spend months planning one day and almost no time preparing for the marriage that follows. Sakinah is a warm, practical workbook for Muslim couples who want to begin with honesty, not guesswork. Work through it together over tea, at family visits or on video calls, and find out where you agree, where you differ, and how you will handle the things that matter.
What's inside
- 150 carefully crafted conversations across ten areas of married life: faith and worship, family and in-laws, money and work, home and daily life, children, communication and conflict, health, roles and expectations, dreams and lifestyle, and boundaries
- "Listen for" guidance in every chapter: the green flags, and the answers worth exploring further
- Planning the nikah: a simple, debt-free approach, a respectful mahr conversation guide, a wedding budget template and a 12-week timeline
- Your first year together: twelve monthly chapters with practical actions, date ideas and reflection pages
- The couple's toolkit: weekly check-in, a pause-and-repair conflict script, a monthly budget, family meeting agenda and shared goals
The details
- Instant digital download (PDF), 92 pages, US Letter size
- Elegant editorial design with fill-in worksheets for both of you
- Hyperlinked contents for easy navigation
- Use it on a tablet together, or print the worksheets
- Bonus included: The Muslim Family Printables Pack (58 pages of charts, planners and ready-to-send school and workplace letters)
A thoughtful gift for engaged couples, newlyweds, and anyone who loves them. Delivered by email in minutes: no wrapping, no shipping, no guesswork.
Sound familiar?
You planned the wedding. Who is planning the marriage?
Most couples spend months on one day and almost no time on the years that follow.
In-law expectations are unclear
Where will you live? How often will you visit? Who decides? Nobody has said it out loud.
Money could become a fight
Different habits and unspoken assumptions about spending, saving and the mahr.
You're not sure you're on the same page
About children, careers, faith at home and what a good day together looks like.
The first real disagreement
No shared way to pause, cool down and repair, so small things grow bigger.
Advice everywhere, little that helps
Plenty of opinions, very few practical tools you can use together tonight.
Talk deeply now, so your home can be calm later.
Sakinah
The solution
Meet Sakinah: the workbook for the conversations that matter
A warm, practical workbook for Muslim couples who want to begin with honesty, not guesswork. Work through it over tea, at family visits or on video calls, and find out where you agree, where you differ and how you will handle what matters.
- 150guided conversations
- 10areas of married life
- 12monthly chapters for year one
- 92pages with fill-in worksheets
Instant PDF download · read on any device or print at home
What changes
From guessing to knowing each other
Conversations you have now become the calm you feel later.
Without a plan: Avoiding the awkward topics
With Sakinah: Gentle prompts that make hard topics easy to start
Without a plan: Guessing what they think about money
With Sakinah: A clear money system you designed together
Without a plan: Unspoken in-law expectations
With Sakinah: Boundaries you agreed on before they were tested
Without a plan: A wedding budget that keeps growing
With Sakinah: A simple, debt-free nikah plan and 12-week timeline
Without a plan: Not knowing how to disagree well
With Sakinah: A pause-and-repair script for your first real disagreement
Without a plan: Drifting apart in year one
With Sakinah: Twelve monthly check-ins that keep you close
Clarity before the nikah
Know where you agree, and talk honestly about where you don't.
A calmer first year
A guide for each month, with date ideas and reflection pages.
Tools for life
Weekly check-ins, a budget and a conflict script you will keep using.
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Look inside
Take a look inside Sakinah
Elegant editorial design with fill-in pages for both of you. Swipe through a few pages.
150 conversations
Faith, family and in-laws, money, home, children, communication, health, roles, dreams and boundaries.
"Listen for" guidance
In every chapter: the green flags, and the answers worth exploring further.
The mahr conversation
A respectful guide to talking about it openly and kindly.
Planning the nikah
A debt-free approach, a wedding budget template and a 12-week timeline.
Your first year together
Twelve monthly chapters with actions, date ideas and reflections.
The couple's toolkit
Weekly check-in, pause-and-repair script, budget and shared goals.
Sakinah
Printables
Is it right for you?
Made for couples who want to begin with honesty
- Engaged couples preparing for the nikah
- Couples getting to know each other with marriage in mind
- Newlyweds in their first year together
- Married couples who want a fresh start
- A thoughtful gift for engaged friends, siblings and children
Sakinah is a conversation workbook, not counseling. If you are facing serious difficulties, please reach out to a qualified counselor or your local imam.
Bonus: The Muslim Family Printables Pack58 pages of prayer charts, chore and bedtime charts, planners and ready-to-send school and workplace letters. Included free with this book.
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Good to know
Questions before you download
Quick answers before you download.
Do we need to use it together?
It works best together, at your own pace: over tea, during family visits or on video calls. Each of you can also reflect on the questions alone first.
We are already married. Is it still useful?
Yes. Many conversations and the whole first-year section work just as well as a reset for couples who are already married.
What is the free bonus?
The Muslim Family Printables Pack: 58 pages of prayer, chore and bedtime charts, family planners and ready-to-send school and workplace letters. It arrives with your book.
How do I receive my book?
Right after checkout, a download link arrives in your email. The same link is on your order confirmation page, so you can start reading straight away.
Can I print it?
Yes. The PDF is set up for US Letter paper and prints well on A4 too. Print the whole book, or only the pages you need.
Can I read it on my phone or tablet?
Yes. Open it in any PDF reader, or in apps such as GoodNotes or Notability if you like to write and highlight as you read.
Is it a physical book?
No. It is a digital PDF, so nothing is shipped. Keep it on your devices and print at home whenever you like.
Can I give it as a gift?
Yes. Simply forward your download email to the person you would like to share it with.
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